《【妖說狐畫】我終於了解》+10

 

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I Have Learned.....

 

我終於了解——
你無法強迫別人愛你。
你所能做的，是使自己成為可愛的人。
此外，則不是你所能決定的。
I've learned -
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.

我終於了解——
不論我如何付出關懷，
有些人就是無動於衷。
I've learned -
that no matter how much I care,
some people just don't care back.

我終於了解——
建立起信任，需費時多年，
但只需幾秒就能摧毀它。
I've learned -
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.

我終於了解——
重要的不是你一生中擁有了什麼東西，
而是你一生中擁有了什麼人。
I've learned -
that it's not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.

我終於了解——
你可以藉由魅力達到目的，
但只能維持15分鐘。
此後，你最好要有些真材實料。
I've learned -
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you'd better know something.

我終於了解——
你不應該拿自己和別人的最佳表現相比，
而應該和自己的最佳表現相比。
I've learned -
that you shouldn't compare
yourself to the best others can do
but to the best you can do.

我終於了解——
重要的不是發生在人們身上的事，
而是他們對那事的反應。
I've learned -
that it's not what happens to people
that's important. It's what they do about it.

我終於了解——
你在瞬間所做的事，
可以叫你心痛一輩子。
I've learned -
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

我終於了解——
不論你切得多薄，
事情總是具有兩面。
I've learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.

我終於了解——
需要經歷很長的時日，
才能使我成為我所欲成為的人。
I've learned -
that it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.

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