🌺🤍I don't judge who...

🌺🤍I don't judge who becomes someone's "lover".

(Before unleashing hell, 

read the whole thing.)

It's a choice that doesn't match my ego and my character 

(and I'm also too deficient: 

the thought of hurting someone devastates me and doesn't let me breathe),

but I do not condemn those who find themselves in situations greater than their own will.

I would just like to give you food for thought:

do you really think you are so insignificant as to deserve to have lived in the shadows?

There are those who are really happy with this choice:

no commitment, 

no involvement, 

maximum freedom.

Okay. 

Happy you, 

happy everyone.

But there are those who fall in love.

And inevitably he no longer understands where the right ends and where the pain begins.

I always think and say that falling in love 

(even with someone else if you are a couple) 

is not a choice: 

it happens.

Whether we like it or not, 

it is.

But then a decision has to be made.

And you have to ask for it.

Forget what people say.

Start considering what you want and what you think you deserve.

Do you really believe that those who (really) love you can agree to share you with another person or that they can agree to sleep next to someone who isn't you?

(…forget the bale of “but we are separated at home, 

we are together for the children, 

you know the situation is complicated”…

that is called cowardice).

I ask you to think about it.

And to remind you to love yourself before making yourself loved.

Never confuse the beautiful words, 

the passion, 

the euphoria of a dream with the authentic love of those who want to shout your name to the world without hiding from the eyes of life.

I know that your heart loves above all things.

But I also know that you must learn to love yourself with the same depth.

If you don't love anymore, 

leave and don't betray.

If you love someone, 

tell them and live it with all the good you can, 

without stealing moments from hours.

And Dignity, 

let us never forget it.

Because it's the only one that will lift us off the ground when there's no more words to look for and we'll only have silence to live... 

🤍💖💗💕💓💘💞💝