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Arab Proverbs to reflect
Proverbs always leave us some teaching or reflection that is worth analyzing in depth. This time I bring you some arab proverbs we have adopted as part of our life.
Whether it's the importance that this culture has had in our history or because they simply provide great teaching, it is worth paying attention. Take note and don't forget these arab proverbs in your day to day.
1. Arab Proverbs: "do not speak if what you will say is not more beautiful than silence"
This is my favorite of the Arab Proverbs I have heard, and it is that the amount of times we regret after saying something is immense. You don't even need to have the latent desire to hurt the other person. Many times you get a little kind comment or with pretty bad vibes that has not passed the heart filter.
We have to pass the comments for the heart filter, which will tell you if it is a useful message who listens to it. Even, sometimes, passing every word we say by the head filter will discover us if it's logical or not. Even if staying with saved grudges is not healthy, it is not to go through life saying things that hurt.
2. " the first time you deceive me, it will be your fault. The second will be my fault
This is one of the arab proverbs that I try to remember at all times, especially in what couple relationships refer to. It is true that in couple relationships there is nothing written and that every couple must make their own decisions.
But if you have been a victim of an infidelity by your partner and keep forgiving and accepting it over and over again, you can't blame it anymore. The message we send by forgiving infidelity after infidelity is that you don't value yourself. If you are not able to see what you are worth and give you your place, how do you expect someone else to do
I'm not saying you never forgive, because this is also necessary to move on. But I do think we must learn to put limits. When the other person shows disrespect for you, the best thing is to let him go to look for what he needs without hurting you.
3. "the man who can't smile, must not open store"
If there is no smile behind the counter of your business, it will go wrong, because no one enters...
I am a faithful believer to follow your dreams and goals, and I think this is one of the arab proverbs that best describes it. What this proverb wants to say is that you must always do what leaves you a smile on your lips.
It will always be more bearable day by day when you are doing the things you love. Of course you will find yourself with problems and challenges, even tasks you don't like anything. But overcoming all this is easier when you love your main activity.
There's nothing worse than dealing with people that the whole day has a face of few friends and a rude deal. Don't become one of them.
4. "punish those who envy you doing good"
At some point in life we all deal with people who are more than willing to make us feel bad. The vast majority of times is because they envy some aspect of you and try to get you emotionally.
You can be tempted to get angry and do the same. The last of these arab proverbs reminds us something very true: the worst punishment for those people is that you behave well with them. It's not about being a hypocrite and treating them like they're your best friends.
Simple kindness usually hurts more than anything else. If you are now dealing with a toxic person of this type and have tried to avoid it without success, try kindness. You'll see that it disappears from your life so fast that you don't even count And eye, I talk about being kind and cordial, not to put you at your disposal for everything. If you ask for something you don't want or can't do, say "no".
I'm sure these arab proverbs will be useful to face the challenges of your day to day. You probably already know them but don't always apply them because you forget them. Pay more attention and reflect on them.
My selection...
Proverbs always leave us some teaching or reflection that is worth analyzing in depth. This time I bring you some arab proverbs we have adopted as part of our life.
Whether it's the importance that this culture has had in our history or because they simply provide great teaching, it is worth paying attention. Take note and don't forget these arab proverbs in your day to day.
1. Arab Proverbs: "do not speak if what you will say is not more beautiful than silence"
This is my favorite of the Arab Proverbs I have heard, and it is that the amount of times we regret after saying something is immense. You don't even need to have the latent desire to hurt the other person. Many times you get a little kind comment or with pretty bad vibes that has not passed the heart filter.
We have to pass the comments for the heart filter, which will tell you if it is a useful message who listens to it. Even, sometimes, passing every word we say by the head filter will discover us if it's logical or not. Even if staying with saved grudges is not healthy, it is not to go through life saying things that hurt.
2. " the first time you deceive me, it will be your fault. The second will be my fault
This is one of the arab proverbs that I try to remember at all times, especially in what couple relationships refer to. It is true that in couple relationships there is nothing written and that every couple must make their own decisions.
But if you have been a victim of an infidelity by your partner and keep forgiving and accepting it over and over again, you can't blame it anymore. The message we send by forgiving infidelity after infidelity is that you don't value yourself. If you are not able to see what you are worth and give you your place, how do you expect someone else to do
I'm not saying you never forgive, because this is also necessary to move on. But I do think we must learn to put limits. When the other person shows disrespect for you, the best thing is to let him go to look for what he needs without hurting you.
3. "the man who can't smile, must not open store"
If there is no smile behind the counter of your business, it will go wrong, because no one enters...
I am a faithful believer to follow your dreams and goals, and I think this is one of the arab proverbs that best describes it. What this proverb wants to say is that you must always do what leaves you a smile on your lips.
It will always be more bearable day by day when you are doing the things you love. Of course you will find yourself with problems and challenges, even tasks you don't like anything. But overcoming all this is easier when you love your main activity.
There's nothing worse than dealing with people that the whole day has a face of few friends and a rude deal. Don't become one of them.
4. "punish those who envy you doing good"
At some point in life we all deal with people who are more than willing to make us feel bad. The vast majority of times is because they envy some aspect of you and try to get you emotionally.
You can be tempted to get angry and do the same. The last of these arab proverbs reminds us something very true: the worst punishment for those people is that you behave well with them. It's not about being a hypocrite and treating them like they're your best friends.
Simple kindness usually hurts more than anything else. If you are now dealing with a toxic person of this type and have tried to avoid it without success, try kindness. You'll see that it disappears from your life so fast that you don't even count And eye, I talk about being kind and cordial, not to put you at your disposal for everything. If you ask for something you don't want or can't do, say "no".
I'm sure these arab proverbs will be useful to face the challenges of your day to day. You probably already know them but don't always apply them because you forget them. Pay more attention and reflect on them.
My selection...
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