🔥……我終於可以說⋯⋯🔥🔥🔥

🔥……我終於可以說，我已經到達了人生中的一個階段，很多事情對我來說都變得清晰起來。

我必須為這種透明度付出非常高的代價，我必須明白，你周圍的人並不總是像他們看起來的那樣，最重要的是，他們不是像他們說的那樣。

我意識到我不再有意願或時間去理解一種缺失或不足，我不再有興趣去解讀一種無緣無故的沉默或不合時宜的憤怒爆發。

我經歷了太多，無法停下來聽那些不知道該說什麼，因此尋找隨機詞語的人說話，那些根據自己所做的事情來評判你的人說話。

我不允許任何人讓我感到內疚、懲罰我、貶低我。

作為一個完全具有同理心的人，我的錯誤一直是「感受」並與他人分享所經歷的情緒和情況，但並不是所有人都是善良的，我很遺憾地承認這一點。

生活教會我們，我們必須學習。

這就像付出了太多的愛。

我們沒有學會愛。🔥🔥🔥

🔥...I can finally say that I've reached a point in my life where many things are clear to me.

I had to pay a very high price for this transparency. I had to understand that the people around you aren't always who they seem, and especially not who they say they are.

I realized that I no longer had the desire or the time to understand an absence or a lack; I'm no longer interested in deciphering an unmotivated silence or an inappropriate outburst of anger.

I've been through too much to stop and listen to someone who doesn't know what to say and therefore searches for random words, someone who judges you for things they do themselves.

I won't allow anyone to make me feel guilty, to punish me, to devalue me. My mistake, as a perfectly empathetic person, has always been to "feel" and share with others the emotions and situations I've experienced, but not all people are good, I'm sorry to admit.

Life teaches, and we must learn. 

It's like giving too much love. 

We don't learn to love.🔥🔥🔥