🌹💚What is Love Bombing?
It is when a person overwhelms you with attention for some time,
gives you presence,
constancy and beauty.
But he doesn't do it for you,
he doesn't do it because he cares.
He does it for himself.
To show his ego that he can do it.
Your every reaction of enthusiasm feeds him
because, probably,
he has an unsatisfactory life,
he feels like a failure and the only thing that makes him believe he is great is being able to seduce.
Not caring in the slightest about the damage he can do.
Love Bombing is when he makes you live crazy emotions,
gives you what you need in that moment,
understands your wounds and plants flowers in it.
Everything about that person seems to scream for perfection.
He knows how to talk to you.
Touch you.
Reassure you.
Creating the right situation at the right time.
If he sees you unconvinced,
add up.
Talk about destiny, about magic,
he discovers cards that never existed.
He does everything to make you follow him in his dream of him,
which,
however,
is not a dream.
It is a stage of a theater.
And that's just because,
like any good actor,
he learned a script.
Usually his is a modus operandi.
He does it almost compulsively because he needs to prove to himself that he can do it and he does it with so many different people.
He learned how to do it.
He makes you live what he wants you to live
and if, at some point, you wake up,
if you see beyond the mask,
if he starts feeling something,
YOU ARE CRAZY.
You are the one who has deluded herself.
The one that had a lot of expectations.
The one who did not understand the situation.
The one in need.
No, friends.
The truth is that when the bluff ends,
the actor is left alone with his demons and his empty spaces to fill.
With its meanness and its inadequacy towards the world.
And you can take a sigh of relief because you got rid of a horrible person.
This you must think while wondering how it is possible to have waterfalls:
you got rid of a horrible person.
And after you lick your wounds,
there will be plenty of time to figure out how to never fall for it again...
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