🌹🤍It is difficult to explain narcissistic abuse to someone who has never been a victim of it.
On the outside it seems that every behavior undertaken was wanted,
but in reality it is not so!
There was no violence or threat,
but there was manipulation,
and this was enough to nullify the victim's will and his ability to self-determine.
The metaphor of the puppeteer gives the idea well:
The narcissist is like a puppeteer,
in the phase of love bombing,
through flattery and a romantic courtship,
he binds the prey to himself.
In the following phases,
the puppet prey will adopt any behavior desired by the narcissist,
conditioned by the psychological and emotional blackmail to which he is constantly subjected.
The general public will see a puppet that moves freely,
because the narcissist will have been able to cleverly hide the threads,
but the prey will no longer have a voice or an identity,
this will only be an extension of his handler.
When a victim tells you about his hell, don't be superficial,
it is long and complex to get rid of the narcissist,
and often at the end of a relationship,
it feels like a puppet at the end of a show,
the lights are off and you no longer have it.
a role to play!🤍💖💗💕💓💘💞💝
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