📚💙IF YOU ARE SATISFIED WITH CRUMBS, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WEAK AND HUNGRY.💙📖+0

 📚💙IF YOU ARE SATISFIED WITH CRUMBS, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WEAK AND HUNGRY.💙📖

🌿💙Crumbs allow you to survive, but they drag your self-esteem and illusions into a deep abyss. There are too many people who are satisfied with crumbs, often sensitive and talented souls, and too many individuals who "prey" the whole cake without the slightest hint of decency and sentiment.

If there were no people who are satisfied with crumbs, there would not be many people with excessive ego and emotional predators. These are people who complement each other by creating toxic relationships: the sadist with the masochist, the tireless worker and the exploitative boss, the devoted wife and eternal husband Peter Pan, the understanding father and the super spoiled son.

Do you think these dichotomous examples came out of nowhere? Do you think that some individuals are born willing to settle for crumbs and others are destined by divine right to eat the whole cake anytime and anywhere?

The ability not to rebel comes from afar and is the result of a self-esteem put on the brink and diminished by fears that are in reality mere shadows, thoughts of smoke that have no endorsement in reality if not the mental chains, often unconscious, suffered. during childhood and never brought to light or processed in adulthood.

The crumbs with which we are satisfied today will constitute the hunger and uncertainty of tomorrow. It's not easy to tell when they are giving you crumbs and when you are getting what really makes you feel strong and whole. Take the case of a woman who seeks love and continually encounters men who lie and ignore her, giving her an irrelevant role in their life.

This woman appreciates love, feeling accompanied, the intimacy of hugs. And she will need more and more attention to "keep going". However, it has been for so long that she is content with so little that she will eventually find nothing. Maybe a kiss between hundreds of lies, a nice sentence and a few facts and sooner or later she will understand that she finds herself sleeping with someone she doesn't really know at all.

Your self-esteem can NEVER settle for crumbs. Your self-esteem needs to feed on empathy, assertiveness, and the ability to be independent. Damaged self-esteem is similar to that of a poorly paid worker: hours and hours of non-stop work, without even the possibility of living a dignified life.

It will never lead anywhere to give up everything, to endure contempt or indifference, just to please and delude yourself that you are "loved". This way of doing is imbued with a bogus romance, made up of ups and downs 99% of the time, which ultimately results in an emotional exhaustion from which it will be very tiring to get out of it. It is necessary to cultivate strength and self-esteem to look for something that fills one's interiority with true nourishment and not with crumbs or worse, with poisoned "meatballs".

If you want your self-esteem to be solid and your life plans not to drift, don't let others give you crumbs and they can see that you are content with such a treatment and that you are even grateful, just because maybe you think that is. the only thing you can aspire to.

The result is a vicious circle: in the end you will be weaker and hungrier each time, settling for more and more crumbs, unable to ever taste the whole cake because you are convinced that you do not deserve it. And there will always be those who will take advantage of this state of affairs, for their own interests or for a simple game. Don't let this continue to happen. Start feeding yourself quality emotional food. Would you like to know more?💙🍀🌼🌻🌺🌷🥀