📚 4 laws of indifference leading to emotional release📖 +01

📚 4 laws of indifference leading to emotional release📖
🌿 🖤 It may seem to you that the word “ indifference “ evokes some coldness, even emotional selfishness... and yet it isn't.
Understood in your context of personal growth, this word implies great inner value that we all must learn to develop.
Being indifferent is not releasing everything that matters to us, destroying emotional ties or personal relationships we have with the people we love.
Being indifferent is simply knowing how to love, appreciate and invest in a more balanced and healthy way; it is free from those excesses that imprison us, that bind us. Who cut our wings.
Emotionally freeing is giving yourself the possibility to live more honestly, according to your needs.
It is therefore about giving yourself the opportunity to grow, to move forward knowingly, and this without harming anyone, and without anyone passing us, without our knowledge, the chains of passionate, affiliate, even maternal love.
So let's learn to put into practice these simple laws that rule indifference...
Here are the 4 laws of indifference that lead to emotional release:
*** Law: You are responsible for yourself**
No one will put aside every stone you find in your path, breathe for you or offer to endure your pain or feel your pain.
You yourself are the artifice of your own existence and every step you take.
Therefore, the first law you must pay attention to in order to be indifferent is realizing that you are totally responsible for yourself

• Don't consider your happiness depends on others. Don't think that to be happy in this life, it is fundamental to be in a relationship with someone who loves you, or always have the recognition of your family.
• If the barometer of your satisfaction and happiness depends on what others bring you, all you will get is more suffering.
  In fact, thinking this way, it will be difficult for you to meet all your needs.
• Cultivate your own happiness, feel responsible, mature, become aware of your decisions and its consequences. Make your choices for yourself and never allow your well-being to always depend on other hearts other than yours.
  *** Second law leading to emotional liberation: live the moment, accept, embrace reality**
  In this life nothing is eternal, nothing remains, everything flows and resumes its path while knitting that natural order that we all have difficulty assuming.
  Most of the time, we only care about the past, which ends up weighing on the present.
  These family disagreements, this trauma, this loss, this sentimental failure or this failed frustration, are anchors that pull us down, chains our feet and hooks our soul.
  It's a toxic and sick addiction that prevents us from moving forward in freedom and in the most total fullness.
  Accept, embrace, and even if it costs you, learn to forgive.
  This way, you'll feel freer and you can focus on what really matters, the ′′ here and now ", that present where your true luck is. So what are you waiting for to grab it?
  *** Third law: defend your freedom and allow others to be free too**
  Accept that freedom is the most full, honest and healthy way to enjoy life, but also to understand it in all its vastness.
  However, this doesn't stop us from forming emotional ties with other people, because this is also part of our personal growth. You have to know how to love and know how to receive love.
  However, indifference implies that you should never feel responsible for the lives of others, just like others should not impose their personal standards, limitations or chains to tie you to them.
  This is where the real problems and suffering begin.
  Strong addictions are never healthy. Think of those obsessive parents who overprotect their children and prevent them from mature and moving forward confidently to explore the world.
  In these cases, the need to ′′ detach ′′ is vital, as each of us must step out of the limits of certainty to learn from the unforeseen and the unknown.
  *** Fourth law: don't deny the existence of losses**
  Once again, we return to the same idea: accept that, in this life, nothing is eternal.
  Eventually, life, relationships and even material things dissipate, like smoke from an open window or cold water sliding through our fingers.
  People leave, kids grow up, some friends end up not being, and certain loves slip through your warm fingers...
  This is all part of indifference, and we must learn to accept it in order to face it with more integrity and strength.
  On the other hand, what will never change is your ability to love... so start by loving yourself.☘ 🌻 🌸 🌼 🌺 🥀