📚 10 Things That Stop You From Being Happy📖
💙 🌿 Below we present you 10 things you have to stop doing in order to be happy once and for all. How to be happy? You must let go of everything that causes you sadness, pain, stress and suffering. Free yourself and give yourself a chance to be happy.
1.- Stop wanting to control everything
This is suffocating. If you really want to be happy you must try to let want to control everything. I know people who want to be in control of everything and, what they do is bitter the existence of everyone around him and so on. Stop controlling your partner, your brothers, your mother, your father, events or situations etc. It's not fair. I understand what you don't want is for the other to fail. Maybe you feel like you have a responsibility to make sure that what happened to you doesn't happen to the other, but... understand that some people learn from their own experience, not from others. Give your advice and let the other be free to choose what he thinks best suits him. Let others be as they are, you will see that you will be happy.
This is suffocating. If you really want to be happy you must try to let want to control everything. I know people who want to be in control of everything and, what they do is bitter the existence of everyone around him and so on. Stop controlling your partner, your brothers, your mother, your father, events or situations etc. It's not fair. I understand what you don't want is for the other to fail. Maybe you feel like you have a responsibility to make sure that what happened to you doesn't happen to the other, but... understand that some people learn from their own experience, not from others. Give your advice and let the other be free to choose what he thinks best suits him. Let others be as they are, you will see that you will be happy.
2.- Stop carrying the responsibility of others
This is very important, everyone has to contribute their grain of sand. I've seen people who take everything to themselves, and carry the full weight of responsibility. Then people act crazy and leave everything to you: at work, at home, at university, at school, at church. Let everyone contribute their share, even if it's small. YOU DON ' T have to bear each other's commitments. Cooperate, but don't bear the responsibility of others: you must be happy.
This is very important, everyone has to contribute their grain of sand. I've seen people who take everything to themselves, and carry the full weight of responsibility. Then people act crazy and leave everything to you: at work, at home, at university, at school, at church. Let everyone contribute their share, even if it's small. YOU DON ' T have to bear each other's commitments. Cooperate, but don't bear the responsibility of others: you must be happy.
3.- You're not always right
I know it's hard to twist your arm. Others likely don't want to or aren't in the ability to understand your point of view. But... let it go, it's not worth imposing and hurting those around you. It's too stressful a situation, let it go!
Arguing and violating you will take years of your life. If you get too angry, calm down and expect the waters to return to their course. If you're right, God will give you the reason. You deserve to be happy.
I know it's hard to twist your arm. Others likely don't want to or aren't in the ability to understand your point of view. But... let it go, it's not worth imposing and hurting those around you. It's too stressful a situation, let it go!
Arguing and violating you will take years of your life. If you get too angry, calm down and expect the waters to return to their course. If you're right, God will give you the reason. You deserve to be happy.
4.- Why are you worried about being accepted?
To be happy, don't pretend to be someone you're not just to get accepted. What happens when you take off your mask and everyone really sees what you look like? No, you must be yourself, that's what makes you special. Some people will like you, others will like you very much: Don't worry.
Jesus our Lord went through exactly the same thing... Let people accept you as you are, don't strive and please to be happy you must not pretend to be someone you really are not.
To be happy, don't pretend to be someone you're not just to get accepted. What happens when you take off your mask and everyone really sees what you look like? No, you must be yourself, that's what makes you special. Some people will like you, others will like you very much: Don't worry.
Jesus our Lord went through exactly the same thing... Let people accept you as you are, don't strive and please to be happy you must not pretend to be someone you really are not.
5.- Don't complain so much
′′ To bad weather, good face ", I don't know who said it, but for sure it was very wise. Bad things happen to them all the time. It's acceptable that you complain and suffer what happens to you, but what's not right is that you live complaining even about the slightest thing. It's not easy living with someone who lives complaining all the time of little ones, when there are so many people suffering from older things. When you feel the need to complain, look around, sure you'll see people with problems three times as heavy as yours and maybe even see them happy.
′′ To bad weather, good face ", I don't know who said it, but for sure it was very wise. Bad things happen to them all the time. It's acceptable that you complain and suffer what happens to you, but what's not right is that you live complaining even about the slightest thing. It's not easy living with someone who lives complaining all the time of little ones, when there are so many people suffering from older things. When you feel the need to complain, look around, sure you'll see people with problems three times as heavy as yours and maybe even see them happy.
6.- Stop giving so many excuses
To be happy you don't need them! Drop them! Excuses limit you, stagnate you and don't let you live your life to the fullest. Today you're going to say: I can, I want and I'm going to get ahead. I'm going to finish that important project for me and my family and I won't postpone it anymore and, with God's help I'll go out on my way and be happy.
To be happy you don't need them! Drop them! Excuses limit you, stagnate you and don't let you live your life to the fullest. Today you're going to say: I can, I want and I'm going to get ahead. I'm going to finish that important project for me and my family and I won't postpone it anymore and, with God's help I'll go out on my way and be happy.
7.- Stop criticizing
Aren't we the same, if it were the opposite, would this world be extremely boring? But... Yes, there is something we all share: the desire to be happy.
Let the other live their life so you can have time to live yours.
Jesus said to his disciples, ′′ Do not judge and you will not be judged; do not condemn and you will not be condemned; forgive and you will be forgiven ".
And why do you look at the straw that's in your brother's eye, and don't see the beam that's in yours? How can you say to your brother, “ Let me get the straw out of your eye ", you, who don't see the beam you have in yours? Hypocrite! Get the beam out of your eye first, and then you will see clear to pull the straw out of your brother's eye ".
If you're going to criticize do it by adopting a responsible, not harmful, but rather constructive and full of love. You must first meet yourself and also understand the other. Damaging criticism will widen the differences between you and your neighbor, prevent you from being happy!.
Aren't we the same, if it were the opposite, would this world be extremely boring? But... Yes, there is something we all share: the desire to be happy.
Let the other live their life so you can have time to live yours.
Jesus said to his disciples, ′′ Do not judge and you will not be judged; do not condemn and you will not be condemned; forgive and you will be forgiven ".
And why do you look at the straw that's in your brother's eye, and don't see the beam that's in yours? How can you say to your brother, “ Let me get the straw out of your eye ", you, who don't see the beam you have in yours? Hypocrite! Get the beam out of your eye first, and then you will see clear to pull the straw out of your brother's eye ".
If you're going to criticize do it by adopting a responsible, not harmful, but rather constructive and full of love. You must first meet yourself and also understand the other. Damaging criticism will widen the differences between you and your neighbor, prevent you from being happy!.
8.- Don't resist changes
Changes are good. Help us stay moving. Changes improve our lives and that of others. God knows why things happen. Didn't it happen to you that they change something suddenly and then things turn out better for you? Be happy and accept change... Don't resist, just play along.
Lord, do with me what you want, because I know you always do what you consider best for me.
Changes are good. Help us stay moving. Changes improve our lives and that of others. God knows why things happen. Didn't it happen to you that they change something suddenly and then things turn out better for you? Be happy and accept change... Don't resist, just play along.
Lord, do with me what you want, because I know you always do what you consider best for me.
9 Let go of the past
To be happy you need to let go of the past, it's not easy at all. Especially if our past was better than our present. But, you must recognize that the past is over and you only have to live in the present. Keep in mind that now in the present you can do things that make you proud and make you accept and see your past positively. Don't stay in yesterday regretting. Live in the present and don't think your future will be terrifying. It's now or never!
To be happy you need to let go of the past, it's not easy at all. Especially if our past was better than our present. But, you must recognize that the past is over and you only have to live in the present. Keep in mind that now in the present you can do things that make you proud and make you accept and see your past positively. Don't stay in yesterday regretting. Live in the present and don't think your future will be terrifying. It's now or never!
10.- Don't stick to anything
Just because you're not attached to a thing doesn't mean you don't appreciate it or don't love it. When you feel attached to something it means you're afraid to lose it. Nothing is forever, what is forever is the infinite love of our Heavenly Father. Love and fear don't coexist, you must break this bond so that you become a person: tolerant, peaceful, kind, empathic, loving. It's a hard thing to explain, but you become someone who loves to accept everything that happens to him.
Just because you're not attached to a thing doesn't mean you don't appreciate it or don't love it. When you feel attached to something it means you're afraid to lose it. Nothing is forever, what is forever is the infinite love of our Heavenly Father. Love and fear don't coexist, you must break this bond so that you become a person: tolerant, peaceful, kind, empathic, loving. It's a hard thing to explain, but you become someone who loves to accept everything that happens to him.
We hope these tips help you be happy, once and for all.💙 ☘ 🌻 🌸 🌼 🌺 🥀
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